www.wemethere.com - how this site works

Hello and welcome to the We Met Here dating web site.

We hope you enjoy your experience on this site and that you are successfull in finding your ideal partner for a long lasting and loving relationship.

This page is intended to be an introduction to dating at We Met Here and to let you know how this site works and what you options are.

As you may already have seen, anyone can freely browse this site and view all the singles dating profiles of registered members. You may browse through each category as a list or enter a word or phrase into the profile search box. You do not have to sign up or create a personal dating profile to see the full profiles of other registered members.

Anyone over the age of eighteen can sign up and create a personal dating profile of themselves for free. The sign up process is very simple and can be completed in just a couple of minutes. During the sign up process, an email will be sent to your registered email address. This email will contain a link with an activation code which will complete the sign up process. This is simply to validate that a live email address has been used and helps to reduce spammers and time wasters. Once activated, you can complete your dating profile description and add up to three images. The more descriptive you are about yourself, the higher ranked and noticed your profile will be. Similarly, adding images to your profile really enhances the ranking of your profile. Our research shows that the profiles that get he most responses from other members are the personal profiles that are the most descriptive and contain images. As you receive responses from other members then your rank will increase also, so it's best to get off to a good start by completing a well though out personal profile with two or three images. As your profile will be seen by non-members, this also means that the site can be crawled by all the major search engines, increasing your chances of being found by someone who matches. It should be noted that no personally identifyable information is displayed on your profile at any time giving you complete privacy.

Once you have signed up and completed your personal dating profile, you can now start to communicate with other members. As before, you can browse through the dating profiles at your leasure until you are ready to start communicating. If you find someone that you like, you can mark them as a favourite. Marking them as a favourite will show them that you are interested as you will show up on their admirers list. This can be a first step and may ecourage them to message you. Don't be discouraged if they don't however, as they may simply be shy and waiting on you to make the next move.

If you would like to show them a little more interest, you can send them a virtual kiss. Virtual kisses are free to send and you can send as many, as often and to whoever you wish.

Once you are ready to communicate, you can send and receive written messages to each other. You choose the content and only when you feel you are ready and have reached a level of trust and confidence can you choose to swap personal contact details such as your email address or mobile number. If another member sends you a message then you can reply free of charge and continue to communicate through the We Met Here message system at no extra charge for as often as you like until you are ready to exchange contact details. If you would like to make the first contact with someone, then you can buy message tickets or upgrade to unlimited messaging. One ticket allows you to send one message. Remember, the person you send the message to can reply free of charge, and once they reply you can continue to use the We Met Here messaging sysem without buying further tickets while you continue to exchange messages with that person. Message tickets can be purchased through your PayPal account, with a credit or debit card (via PayPal) or by sending a text message from your mobile.

We hope you enjoy your experience on this site and we will continue to strive to improve that experience for your future visits.